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We have observed our 7 month old rubbing her eyes ever since we can remember. She does this especially when she's tired, but also when she's bored or starting to get frustrated.

She'll oftentimes rub so hard that she will scratch her nose and cause a scab or two to develop.

I'm most concerned that she'll rub her eyes too hard and cause some sort of damage.

Any and all help is appreciated.

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My brother is rubbing his eyes frequently whenver he gets scolded or trying to cry. End result is that he'll get reddened eyes and sometimes swollen... I don't knownwhy he does that, or how to stop him by doing that. My mother would just slap his hands or even harm him by doing so... She's a b*tch. -_- and he's just 7 y/o. – user16695 Jun 8 '15 at 1:30
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Babies rub their eyes. It's just part of how they're made. I have tried everything I can to stop my 19-month-old from rubbing her eyes, but that's because she wears contact lenses and rubbing her eyes can lead to rubbing out her lenses and losing one, or, worse, causing her to damage her eye with the lense (these are rigid gas permeable lenses, btw).

The latter has actually never happened, and my daughter will rub her eyes quite hard and for an extended period of time if she's tired or the sun is in her eyes or her lense gets out of alignment or whatever, and she's been wearing contact lenses since she was 4 months old. The likelihood that your daughter is going to damage her eye by rubbing it is slim. The most probable cause of her harming her eye in this manner is if she has some sort of debris (sand, dirt, etc.) on her hands and reaches up to rub her eye and it gets into the eye. Also there's the possibility that she could maybe develop an eye infection if she's been in contact with someone who has recently had pink eye or some other highly communicable eye infection. Either way, the best way to prevent both of these from occurring is just to keep her hands as clean as possible. If you let her play in the sandbox, make sure you wash her hands as soon as she's done playing.

The eye is a pretty resilient organ, so unless you have a specific reason to be concerned that she's going to damage her eye (like, she has an eye condition or something), I don't think you really need to worry too much about it. If you want to prevent her from scratching her nose, the only thing we've found that works is just keeping nails clipped fairly frequently. It's not ideal because their nails grow so fast, but it should cut down on the scratching (my daughter has a scab on her nose for this exact reason right now).

Hope that helps some!

ETA: If you think that her eye-rubbing is way outside the norm (which I know can be hard to judge), then it might be worthwhile to bring it up at your next ped appointment. I suppose that excessive eye-rubbing could be the result of a more serious problem, and this website seems like it has some good points to look for if you're concerned about that.

ETA (again): I don't love this website as it's a site which I wouldn't consider to be the height of medical information, but they make some completely valid points about eyes and eye-rubbing in babies which I'd never really thought about before, namely that as your baby gets tired, the muscles surrounding their eyes also grow fatigued and rubbing the eyes will relieve the tension in and around the eye and eyelid (we've all done this before after working a long day, reading a lot, or spending too much time watching tv or on the computer). Additionally, the longer your eyes are open, the dryer they become and rubbing them somewhat stimulates tearing. Excessive eye-rubbing (as in, more than usual) can sometimes be a sign of a teething in some children.

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Thanks so much for your insight! – Mike G Mar 12 '12 at 1:37
No pun intended--right? Insight? Get it? Oh, nevermind...even I think that was cheesy :-D – Meg Coates Mar 12 '12 at 1:38

You can't stop an infant from rubbing her eyes, it's a natural thing to do. I believe that your primary concern is not the rubbing, but the effects.

I understand that you're worried that she's scratching herself with her fingernails. There are two solutions to this.

  • Make sure that her fingernails are nicely trimmed at all times. This can be difficult, but one she's able to scratch herself you know that it's time to trim again.

  • You can get thin cotton mittens for newborns and infants to wear during the day (yes, indoors). The purpose of these mittens are simply to keep the child from scratching herself. Of course these only make sense as long as the child is too small to do anything meaningful with her hands -- eventually the mittens would interfere with learning, and she'll be able to remove them on her own anyway. But before that time, they can be helpful.

Apart from the fingernails, I don't think you need to worry that she will hurt herself. She is not going to poke her eyes out. She is not going to rub hard enough to do any damage - that requires a lot more strength and determination.

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Thanks Torben. We used to use those little cotton mittens but we stopped when she started to make use of her hands. – Mike G Mar 12 '12 at 10:47

My son was about 12 months old and still rubbed his eyes, he rub them so much he would get blisters. When I put his down for naps I had started lay with him and hold him in a hug till he was in a deep sleep. I think that stopped the habit of him rubbing him eyes before he fell a sleep.

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Infants often rub their eyes when they are tired, so this is probably a symptom of tiredness & I would try to put her down for a nap when she starts rubbing them. To be sure she is tired, look for other cues when she is rubbing her eyes, such as yawning and fussiness. My son did this also and it took me a while to figure out that he was actually tired!

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