What are good strategies to deal with children (not my own ones, but children I'm meeting in the kindergarten) which
- do things to me or to my son which they should not do like throwing things etc.
- and do not stop when I tell them, so they don't respect my authority as an adult?
One example for such a situation is described in this question: How should I react if another child "attacks" my son by doing something he does not like (but not especially dangerous)
There are some boys in the kindergarten of my son who are quite "wild" and like doing things they're not allowed to do. I often see that it is also difficult for the kindergarten teachers to stop them doing those things and that it seems to be not enough to tell them to stop, but they have to be taken at the hand and lead away etc. and even then they are not always obedient.
This is a general question, however in my current situation this is especially about pre-schoolers and I think the possible answers might be different for different age groups.