Take the 2-minute tour ×
Parenting Stack Exchange is a question and answer site for parents, grandparents, nannies and others with a parenting role. It's 100% free, no registration required.

Possible Duplicate:
Are there any reputable studies on spanking?

Is there any serious research on whether kids who are punished through pain-infliction by parents learn how to properly act in a society better or worse then other kids?

Do they become better or more successful in school and later life, or the opposite?

In short, is violent punishment more effective then other methods?

How much pain can one inflict on ones kids while still staying within US country laws? Can one use tools like belts etc.?

Which are the most effective methods?

share|improve this question

marked as duplicate by Karl Bielefeldt, Beofett Dec 10 '11 at 18:19

This question has been asked before and already has an answer. If those answers do not fully address your question, please ask a new question.

    
Closed as duplicate, and fixed the deliberately inflammatory title –  Beofett Dec 10 '11 at 18:22
add comment

1 Answer 1

The best punishments are those which show the child why they should not have done what they did. Therefore I would suggest that beating is actually less effective, than simply telling off your child.

Furthermore, there is much evidence that children that are beaten are much more likely to beat their wives and children in the future, starting a vicious circle of domestic violence. Teaching your children that violence is the method of getting your own way is also likely to cause problems for them at school where they will get sent out of class for starting fights, and in the workplace, where they will be fired.

As far as the law is concerned, that will vary between states. But generally anything that leaves a mark or causes permanent damage will be illegal. Smacking a child's bottom is probably acceptable, but I would not go further than that.

Please do not hurt your children

They are only young, and it won't help anyway.

share|improve this answer
add comment

Not the answer you're looking for? Browse other questions tagged or ask your own question.