Having experienced parental alienation syndrome, my child is very reticent and unresponsive to my attempts in rebuilding our relationship. The condition is very much like sulking, but with an externally inflicted cause. What approaches can I try to invoke interest, cooperation and joint bonding experiences?
[edit - background - not part of the question]
After divorce the mother got custody and over time have influenced our daughter to the extend stated above. The mother has committed at least 9 (provable) acts of transgressions indicating active application of parental alienation most of which is still continuing. The syndrome is the effect it has on our daughter (12yo). Due to its insidious nature, the parental alienation took place over two-plus years to reach this current state at which I at last woke up to it. Previous to this period the relationship was fine and normal.
I've looked at legal options but will not take that route - can see only harm and stress affecting my daughter on top of the PAS.
I have intermittent telephonic access (controlled by the mother: I call her and ask to talk to my daughter), and see my daughter twice a week for less than an hour each time. I want to use these accesses to try and salvage something of a relationship with my daughter.
I've informed the mother that I'm aware of what is going on, but no helpful response from her side (yet), but I'm working on it, although I'm not holding my breath.
In short: what can I do to (re)bond with my daughter?