Is there an alternative to Boy/Girl Scouts in the US?

Question

My son desperately wants to join the Boy Scouts, but I've had to say no due to the local troop's religious agenda.

I've been helping my friend try to come up with ideas for her daughter's new Girl Scout troop, as the activities have been incredibly dumbed down over the years (there are now only 15 skill badges brownies can earn, compared to dozens when I was a child, and the girls' books contain much more nebulous fluff and far fewer activities).

Is there a challenging, secular program that gets kids together to work on outdoorsmanship and citizenship, and gives them the chance to meet other kids with those values?

Notes: Both children are in elementary school. I'd prefer a coed program, but if there isn't one, a single-sex alternative would be fine.

Answer 1

I'd like to offer an alternative, which is the B-PSA (Baden-Powell Service Association) (http://bpsa-us.org). I'm commissioner for the association, and we are open to everyone, without exception, youth and adult, boys and girls. Our policy of inclusion provides an environment for both secular (myself included) and non-secular participation. We are a traditional scouting program, based on the same scouting methods and aims laid down by Baden-Powell when he founded scouting in 1907. Our intention is to keep to the traditional, outdoor based program and make scouting available to every youth and adult that would like to participate. We have program sections for ages 5-7 (Otters), 8-10 (Timberwolves), 11-17 (Pathfinders) and 18+ (Rovers).

I'm also the Group Scoutmaster for a local B-PSA group in Missouri; and I would be happy to answer any questions about the program and how we operate. We're very small right now; but have various groups starting up in different areas of the US. I'd be glad to help you setup a new group and get one going in your area as well.

You can get in touch with me via the "Contact" form on the main web site, http://bpsa-us.org or my contact information here. I hope this gives you some more information on your questions; and maybe the program lines up with what you are looking for in a scouting organization.

Answer 2

4-H (homepage, Wikipedia) worked for me and my siblings. I won awards in local, district, and state competitions in public speaking, showing cattle, and cooking while holding various offices in the organization, attend camps and participating in special events and activities. The choices of activities are much less "farm centered" and varied in recent years. The program may be a good option for your children.

Here is more information from their webpage regarding.

4-H is a positive youth development organization that empowers young people to reach their full potential. A vast community of more than 6 million youth and adults working together for positive change, 4-H enables America’s youth to emerge as leaders through hands-on learning, research-based 4-H youth programs and adult mentorship, in order to give back to their local communities

With an expansive network reaching every corner of the country, 4-H is the nation’s largest youth development organization. More than 6 million 4-H youth in urban neighborhoods, suburban schoolyards and rural farming communities stand out among their peers: building revolutionary opportunities and implementing community-wide change at an early age.

4-H programs have taken root in more than 70 countries in North, South, and Central America, Europe, Asia, and Africa. World-wide, 4-H programs operate autonomously but all share the goal of improving the lives of millions of young people and their families. Around the world, 4-H has been proven an effective tool for agricultural and economic development.

Answer 3

If you're near water, an alternative might be a sailing club?

I have great personal experiences with joining a sailing club as a child, learning and working with others, and eventually becoming a volunteer sailing instructor myself. That sailing club was in a rural area and had a very relaxed social atmosphere -- not at all the snobbish pseudo-golfer stereotypes that might come to mind when you hear sailing club.

Granted, there's not much going on with "badges" and such, but you do learn a lot of practical handling of physical things, and tying proper knots(!), and an understanding of the effects of the physical world (principles and effects of wind, waves, inertia of moving objects, safety and rescue, spring/fall cleaning and preparation, and so on).

There's also the important element of teamwork, and meeting others in the club's social activities as well as strangers during regattas etc.

Perhaps other sports clubs can offer similar benefits?

Answer 4

What about Campfire? http://www.campfireusa.org/index.aspx It isn't secular, but there is no religious agenda. It is co-ed and offers outdoor programs.

Another option would be your local YMCA. I think they sometimes have programs for kids.

Answer 5

You could also try a local Boys/Girls Club, they often have activities like that as well. Though its been awhile since I have been to one. http://www.bgca.org/Pages/index.aspx

Not for primary age kids, but when they get older you may want to keep Outward Bound in mind: http://www.outwardbound.org

Often I like to have ideas for things to do in the future so I have time to research them.

I have reservations about the Boy Scouts as you do, but I also have some great memories of them and I never bought into the religious stuff - although I am still going to put my son in it while I can.

Answer 6

In the UK people could try the Woodcraft folk.

http://www.woodcraft.org.uk/

At Woodcraft Folk we believe passionately in equality and co-operation – everyone is welcome to join our groups.

Every week thousands of volunteers and young people meet in school halls, community venues and a host of other places to learn about big ideas through fun activities like singing, playing and debating.

Our aim is to have great fun, but also to try and develop children’s self-confidence and build their awareness of society around them.

Through our activities, outings and camps we help our members understand important issues like the environment, world debt and global conflict and, in recent years, we have focused on sustainable development.

By encouraging children to think, we hope they will help build a peaceful, fairer world.

Internationally they are part of http://www.ifm-sei.org/ which is perhaps a bit left-wing.

Answer 7

I work over at DIY.org--a community for kids who make. Might be a nice online alternative for kids where they can earn badges and skills by completing challenges for a variety of Skills on the site.

http://www.diy.org