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My 3 year old daughter has been great up until now. She continues to pretend she isn't capable of going to the restroom and is peeing everywhere for some reason. She keeps saying "I can't do it" when we tell her to do something.

She all started acted out when her father(ex to my girlfriends) came over. At first she got in a bad mood when getting the news of him coming over and was being bad. I don't know if his coming over is causing a bad affect to her. This ex has left a bad impression on them both I think which is why they left because the situation was bad.

I don't know what the heck is going on. She was a sweet heart and would listen, now it just all backwards. The daughter really loves me and always asks for me. I wonder if it could be she is acting our because I am not there, but I am unsure.

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Can you clarify the relationships in her life? It sounds like you might be the stepfather. Relevant would be the ages she was living with each parent. –  Shawn C Apr 9 at 1:45
A 3-yr-old reacting/behaving/responding like an adult... really? –  Maulik V Apr 10 at 7:01
What you have asked contains far too little detail for anyone to provide any sort of reliable answer. A fully-detailed question in this regard may very well be beyond the scope of what one ought to post in a public forum. The essence of the answer is "address the core issue". Identifying that issue is the challenge. If it continues, seek a psychologist or such to help you in addressing the root cause. –  Jeremy Miller Apr 11 at 2:48
It seems like she's asking for your attention - she's trying to make you listen to how she feels. Or she feels endangered (I heard stories about children regressing when a second child is born and the first one suddenly stops getting attention he had before. They need to feel that they are still important in the world. And to be listened.) –  Tomáลก Kafka May 14 at 23:02

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