Yesterday when i was changing my daughter in her PJ's to get ready for bed she started crying out of nowhere. This was very surprising cause we don't get that very often with her. When i asked what was wrong she answers:"I don't know what to be when i am older!", and the crying intensified. I picked her up and cuddled her, telling here its going to be fine, and there is no shame in the fact that she doesn't know that, that in time it will come to her, and its more important to be happy than to be anything else. it took me a hour to get her to calm down! She seemed scared of the fact of growing up.
Now, our daughter is not your typical daughter, she was making 2~3 word sentences when she was 1 year of age, and adding and subtracting about the time she turned 2 years old(already talking with full sentences by then).
So my questions would be: How can we make it clear to her there is no shame in not knowing what you want to be?
Can we give her options to trigger her imagination so she will not be afraid of it. Could making her visualizing it(something she likes to do, like taking care of animals on a farm) take the fright out of the situation?
Now her intellect is about 6~7 years of age, but her emotional needs are still those of a 4 year old, please keep that in mind while answering.
Thank you for your time!