For my son's 10th birthday we told him he could invite 3 friends over for a sleepover. The party was a ton of fun until the next day, ( for me that is!)
I received a text message from the mother of one of my son's friends ( whom was not invited to the party.)
She texted " so are you going to make me ask or a are you going to tell me?"
I responded with a " what!?"
She replied, " why wasn't (my son) invited? "
I told her that I hope his feelings aren't hurt and that we left the decision up to (my son) and the other reason was her son wouldn't like having to sleep in the basement and watch a scary movie.( all of which were big problems in the past)
The mother of the boy who wasn't invited told her son that he wasn't invited to the party.
She made the comment that she was more hurt than her son.
The relationship between her and I has been... eventfull. She wants us to be "BFF". I mean I like her and all but I'm not the type of person who wants to hang out with them every weekend and go grocery shopping together.
My son and her son don't really have much in common. My son is big into sports whereas he doesn't like sports. Her son plays video games daily whereas mine is only allowed to play on Saturdays.
Any input on this would help as I'm now upset with her for making this into a big deal and being yet again, more drama into my life.